If sweet talkin' be song
we are definitely livin' it
when we should be killin' it.
Here's how it goes...
"You know I care about you
I wouldn't do anything that
would hurt you, and besides,
you need me."
This is the song that the Fossil Fuel Industry
uses to keep us attached,
keep us dependent and
trusting of their so-called good will.
This is the song that an abuser
uses to keep his victim
from rejecting the relationship.
We are all victims of these songs,
sung to us by the corporations
who are invested in coal,
oil and gas.
How do you break away from an abuser?
First you must stop believing he will realize
the damage he does and change.
Second you must accept you are
not responsible for the lies
and destructive actions he does.
Third you must seek help from others
who are aware of and share understanding
of the situation.
Fourth you must realize you have been
and will continue to be manipulated if
you do not end the relationship as it is now.
And most importantly remember
this is a situation where he has
power over and nothing will change
until that changes.
This, sadly, describes our current relationship
with the Fossil Fuel Industry.
And if you didn't know, now you know.
We are truly living
in a time that challenges us
to find moments of calm
Sadly we find our focus is on
issues that seem to grow big
and weigh us down
Our energy gravitates
toward the divisions
wrenching us apart
Country vs country, state vs state,
community against community,
between family members
around the kitchen table
Fear and anger have
taken up the space
Give yourself over to the energy
of anger and fear and you
give away your power to a point
where you won't get it back
Beyond not getting it back
your power will be used against you
by others with more power
Remember that the ability to
cast your vote and have it counted
is a Right in this country
A Right that we must hold with care
or it will die at the hands of those who
care nothing for your rights
Why is this so hard to understand?
**No photo here - you just need to VOTE!
the terrible news of gun deaths
shatters us and once again we think
this must be the moment that
more evidence emerges of the thriving
systemic racism in our country
but we pretend it will end.
the levers of power among
corporations and politicians
prevent us meeting the climate challenge
and we pray science will save us.
we must embrace the bigger picture
of a greener more equitable world
in whatever way we can.
there are efforts to work toward
these possibilities but they mostly
escape our Twitter feed.
we must take the next step
even when we lose trust in the outcome.
It's our hope for the future,
depending of course on what we wish
for the generations to come.
Each of us must make that decision
Often these days
I find myself saying
In our culture we are not prepared
for aging and death.
Ours is a culture
that denies and denigrates
growing old in so many ways.
My lament, however, is about
seeking a way to accept
the aging process and inevitability of death.
How do we go about
living and dying at
the same time?
How do we navigate
this end of life realm
There are expectations of course.
Most of them focus on
an endless list of abilities lost.
Where is the expectation that
we gain wisdom and grace?
How do we move past
the invisibility of personhood
that surrounds us?
I've often offered to others
that they trust the process,
but this process requires a level of trust
that exceeds what may have been needed before.
Loving what is - this is the phrase that
keeps nudging my mind
Easing into what may come,
Taking one step at a time.
Slowing down and
being more deliberate
has its advantages.
(aka the tortoise)
Maybe less mourning the losses.
More gratitude for the gifts.
Expect transitions to last longer
and let go your idea of what's to come.
Spend more time appreciating the present.
Maybe, just maybe, this has the beginnings
of the map I've been seeking.
Now let's see if I can keep
from losing my way...
The weather notice on my phone
is telling me
"It's perfectly clear right now"
So my mind responds -
perfectly clear to whom?
Not to me I'm afraid
And exactly WHAT is it that's perfectly clear?
When one is feeling overwhelmed
with the political landscape, the climate crisis
and the myriad daily issues percolating in front of me -
it requires great effort to see what's clear
Maybe what's clear is the background
against which all of these issues
are playing out
Maybe it can be comforting to know
that clarity can be seen behind
the fast moving pieces
I often find difficult to grasp
Perhaps one can choose which to focus on
Perhaps this background is the constant,
a particular aspect of living
one can trust and have faith in
We do need some solid base
from which to navigate, to take a stand,
to rest in when we're overwhelmed
I suspect that it's from this perspective
that clarity arises and gives us
the energy we need to keep moving forward
toward a day when it is perfectly clear.
There is a quiet
among the plants in my garden
in early day of Summer
Unlike the closed-in warmth-conserving
heaviness of Winter,
this quiet has a rhythm all its own
In the Spring the energy of growth
pushing up and out
brings tentative shoots
raising their sleepy heads
But by the time of early Summer
there has already been much
birthing of newness and
the slow fading away of aging blooms
There is a settling into this sequence
of the pulsing of new life in one spot
followed by a curling into itself
A time of both living and dying
repeated over and over,
a rhythm that continues into
the chill of Autumn
Would that we could ride these waves
of living and dying
with less angst
and more like these flowers in my garden.
Nineteen children this time dead
We are not at war
We’re just having a normal day
sending our kids to school
Something is terribly wrong
when nineteen children
don’t come home and
are shot to pieces instead
So what the fuck do you think that is?
It’s not mental illness
It’s not that we don’t love our children
It’s about making money and
What will it take for us
to realize that we really can be
a loving and compassionate people?
How to turn from the direction we are heading?
What medicine cures the sickness
now afflicting our politics?
How to make politicians realize
it’s in their interest to do whatever works
to prevent further mass murder
It sickens me even to ask these questions.
The answers cannot be to sell or
buy more guns
We are not going to ask that
teachers be armed
because no one else is standing up
to protect our children.
Nor can it be just offering
thoughts and prayers
There were 78 incidents of gun violence
in our schools this year
The answers are really quite easy
We know what works to limit gun violence
but it means electing politicians who
think that controlling gun violence
is worth the effort.
Difficult to imagine that this
would be a challenge for them
or that it would not be worth doing
WHATEVER IT TAKES!
But there it is.
After all the seeming of our trying
In an effort to make ourselves big
and more important, more powerful
more of whatever is more than what we have
or what we are now
We are still little people
who are mortal.
Every effort to compare and judge,
each time we throw ourselves into
competition with another,
whatever we think we've won
We are still little people
who are mortal.
When we objectify others,
when we engage in war on them,
when we rape, torture or kill
We become even smaller,
less significant and
still very mortal.
Want to know
what makes us bigger?
Basically Compassion and Insight
are the tools that work best
Compassion because it enlarges
our Heart-Mind to include
all other beings
Insight because it grows
our perception and understanding
of how to be in relation with
ourselves, all other beings
and the Earth
And that I believe is
how we may change from
always showing up as little people
And sets us each on the path to
become a Bigger Person
though we still be mortal.
A Ukrainian child died tonight.
An abrupt shattering of a young life
We should all mourn this sweet soul
But before tears fall for this one innocent
Look again -
There's another shot and killed,
one who has starved to death,
another raped and murdered.
And more. Sadly many more.
How many you ask.
More than enough
One is too many and
none can be explained away.
How to explain the Corrupt Power that
causes this to happen?
What kind of hate kills children?
I want to ask the Russian soldiers -
What do you get from killing children?
What is your reward?
Do you really believe these are child Nazis?
Do you have children of your own?
I was a child during the Cold War times
We hid under our desks in school during drills
preparing us for a nuclear attack.
I recall thinking if I could just
talk to Khrushchev
I might make him understand
such a war should never be
A child's fantasy
Now in this time of Hot War
I see that Corrupt Power
does not listen to children
Corrupt Power does not listen
Corrupt Power hears only
the hollow echo of its own voice.
A Ukrainian child died tonight.
I can feel the energy of the words
as I write this title
as well as the weight they carry
It's the energy of life and
living from a place of intention
It's the way I wake up every morning
It's what I lay aside every night
It's having a purpose even when
I'm not certain what that is
It's the solid ground within
where seeds are sprouting
It's even the doubting middle of the night voice
that must be hushed back to sleep
It's what my heart knows to be true
even when my mind says otherwise
And I love that I get to be all these parts of me
driven by the intensity of resolve
in living this fearsome and